Sunday, December 30, 2007

New Years Celebration

Tonight I had a few friends over for an early New Years celebration... Joe, Joy, Josh, Hiba and Duane came over along with the kids. It was so cute to see Hiba's belly bump... she's tiny :-) And Gideon is growing up so quickly.

We did hors d'oerves for our meal. Here's the menu...
Fruit Kabobs
Cheese Fondue
Skewered Pork
Crab Stuffed Shells
Mini Barbeque Sausages
Shrimp with Cocktail Sauce
Cheese, Crackers and Bread
Tomato and Mozzarella Salad
Bread Bowl with Spinach-Artichoke Dip

We ended up with a really nice champagne and wishes for a wonderful New Year...

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Sunsets...

I saw this beautiful sunset on the way home from work the other day... Gorgeous. I wish we had our camera tonight. We went on a night hike at Hager Park. The moon, the stars, it was all so lovely...

Monday, December 24, 2007

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Sledding...

What a wonderful time I had this past weekend sledding with my kids. They're the BEST!!

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Chocolate Trifle...


Found this "to die for" recipe on Allrecipes.com
INGREDIENTS

* 1 (19.8 ounce) package brownie mix
* 1 (3.9 ounce) package instant chocolate pudding mix
* 1/2 cup water
* 1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk
* 1 (8 ounce) container frozen whipped topping, thawed
* 1 (12 ounce) container frozen whipped topping, thawed
* 1 (1.5 ounce) bar chocolate candy


DIRECTIONS

1. Prepare brownie mix according to package directions and cool completely. Cut into 1 inch squares.
2. In a large bowl, combine pudding mix, water and sweetened condensed milk. Mix until smooth, then fold in 8 ounces whipped topping until no streaks remain.
3. In a trifle bowl or glass serving dish, place half of the brownies, half of the pudding mixture and half of the 12 ounce container of whipped topping. Repeat layers. Shave chocolate onto top layer for garnish. Refrigerate 8 hours before serving.

I have modified it a bit as this is now the second time I'm making it... Going a bit Cream Cheesy :-) I'll have to let you know how it worked out!!

Sunday, December 9, 2007

Child soldiers...

I finally got around to watching Blood Diamond. Wow, was it ever intense. It is so hard not to just break down and cry... to think there are 200,000 child soldiers in Africa... Their blood cries out for justice. It makes me think of an old Randy Stonehill song:

POSTCARDS FROM BANGKOK
HUB OF THE EASTERN WORLD
WHERE ALL THE TOURISTS COME
TO PARTY WITH THE PRETTY GIRLS
THEY DANCE LIKE SLEEPWALKERS
UNDER THE DISCO LIGHTS
UP ON THE AUCTION BLOCK
HATING ALL THE HUNGRY EYES
AND I'VE SEEN THE WOODEN SHACKS
ROW AFTER ENDLESS ROW
WHERE OPEN SEWAGE FLOWS
IN THE SHADOW OF THE FACTORY
I'VE SEEN THE CHILDREN'S FACES
HOPE BURNING IN THEIR EYES
TOO YOUNG TO REALIZE
THEY FACE A LIFE OF MISERY

Chorus
CAN HELL BURN HOT ENOUGH
TO PAY FOR ALL THIS SUFFERING
THE MURDER OF THE INNOCENT
CAN HELL BURN HOT ENOUGH
TO BALANCE OUT THESE SCALES
CAN HELL BURN HOT ENOUGH
I'VE SEEN THE CORPORATIONS
BUILT UPON HUMAN BLOOD
THE NAMELESS, FACELESS WORKERS
CRUSHED LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE MUD
EXPAND YOUR OPERATION
THE LABOR COMES DIRT CHEAP
NO ONE COMPLAINS WHEN THERE'S
A MILLION JOBLESS ON THE STREET
AND I'VE SEEN THE SICK AND BROKEN
TOO WEAK FOR STANDING UP
HOLD UP THEIR BEGGAR'S CUP
JUST HOPING FOR ENOUGH TO EAT
WHEN JUST AROUND THE CORNER
AT THE SHANGRI-LA HOTEL
THE WEALTHY TAKE THEIR LUNCH
AT POOLSIDE TO ESCAPE THE HEAT

Chorus

Bridge
O GOD OF JUSTICE
MY GOD OF EQUITY
I KNOW YOUR HEART BREAKS
FOR THE SINS OF THIS WICKED WORLD
I KNOW THAT JUDGEMENT WILL BE SWIFT AND IRREVERSIBLE
TILL THEN YOUR TEARS RAIN
ON THE EVIL AND THE GOOD
I KNOW THAT GOD IS HOLY
I KNOW THAT STATE I'M IN
I KNOW THAT SIN IS SIN
AND IT'S NOT MEASURED BY DEGREE
HERE IN THE LAND OF DARKNESS
WE ALL ARE GUILTY MEN
I KNOW I'D STAND CONDEMNED
WITHOUT THE BLOOD OF JESUS

Saturday, November 24, 2007

More reasons to be thankful

This didn't go as well as I'd hoped, but a last Thanksgiving entry... I am thankful for:
People who hold me accountable
People who know me, but love me anyhow
The Bible, which gives me hope that things will get better
Safety on the roads
My parents
Laughter
Tears
The smell of pears
Life
IKEA :-)
Coffee
The cross
Music
Dance
Tickling
Singing
Wireless internet that works
My sweet nieces spending the weekend with us

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Getting a gratitude attitude

Okay, so much for doing a bit of this every day! I really needed to get here today and remember reasons to be thankful!

  1. I'm thankful Jesus loves me
  2. I'm thankful my co-workers are joining me on an exercise/healthy living program
  3. I'm thankful for my parents
  4. I'm thankful I'm not a single parent
  5. I'm thankful for my job
  6. I'm thankful I have kept my van as long as I have
  7. I'm thankful for the accountability Chris is bringing into my life
  8. I'm thankful for Rick and Dan
  9. I am thankful for Alex learning to manage his stress
  10. I'm thankful for Lizzie being such a servant
  11. I'm thankful for Ian being so brave and funny
  12. I'm thankful for Andrew's cuddles
  13. I'm thankful for the memories of France I'll always have…

Why American's are overweight...

Friday, November 2, 2007

Thanksgiving month!

Why only be thankful on Thanksgiving Day? As part of my goal to become more thankful I am going to blog as often as I can through Nov. to list all the things I'm thankful for. So, I am thankful for -
1. Music
2. Laughter
3. Sunrise and sunsets
4. The smell of burning leaves
5. My children
6. Wonderful memories with Carol
7. A job I'm good at
8. My parents
9. Growing up in Africa
10. Visiting France this year
11. Coffee
12. Hugs
13. Snow at Christmas time
14. Sandy beaces
15. The Bible
16. Friends like Connie, Nikki, and Josh
17. A car that doesn't break down much
18. Visiting France this past summer
19. Skin
20. Jesus' love and acceptance

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

bike ride

It's my busyness

Regardless of how I may aspire to ease my busyness as seen in the post below or other grand aspirations, I never quite seem able to put it into practice in my own life... Take the last week as an example...
Wednesday - Worked till 5:00, ran home and grabbed a bite to eat then off to AWANA, finally home and quiet by 9:00
Thursday - Worked till 5:00 then to Circuit City to see about fixing Carol's laptop screen which one of the boys accidentally kicked and it blew out, then 25 minutes north to friends Joy and Joe for supper then home and quiet by 10:00
Friday - Worked till 5:00 then had a board meeting and that ran till after 10 p.m. Helped clean up so I didn't get home till about 10:30 but Alex was at a sleep over and needed me to bring his clothes and a movie so I didn't really get home and settled till nearly midnight...
Saturday - Up early for Christmas program practice and then spent the early part of the day cleaning the house. If I remember Saturday evening was a more quiet evening... but it's a bit fuzzy.
Sunday - After church we ran out for lunch and errands and didn't get home till nearly five. Sunday evening is also a bit fuzzy but i think I vegged...
Monday - Came home and cleaned the house a bit, began cleaning up the yard till supper. After supper Carol went out to work on school stuff so I settled the kids then worked on my office redecoration project till after 10 p.m.
Tuesday - After work I came home and did some more leaf clean up then had a bite of supper then went out for French club... After French club I stopped at the store for Carol. When I got home I did some laundry and cleaning and settled down about 10 p.m.

And so it goes... I'm not complaining, but I don't know how without just giving up on life...

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Emmy Rossum on life being too busy.

Slow me
Slow me down
Rushing and racing and running in circles
Moving so fast I’m forgetting my purpose
Blur of the traffic is sending me spinning
Getting no where
My head and my heart are colliding chaotic
Pace of the world
I just wish I could stop it
Try to appear like I’ve got it together
I’m falling apart
Save me
Somebody take my hand
And lead me
Slow me down
Don’t let love pass me by
Just show me how
Cause I’m ready to fall
Slow me down
Don’t let me live a lie
Before my life flies by
I need you to slow me down
Sometimes I fear that I might
Disappear in the blur of fast forward
I falter again
Forgetting to breathe
I need to sleep
I’m getting nowhere
All that I’ve missed I seen in the reflection
Pass me while I wasn’t paying attention
Tired of rushing, racing, and running
I’m falling apart
Tell me
Oh won’t you take my hand
And lead me
Slow me down
Don’t let love pass me by
Just show me how
Because I’m ready to fall
Slow me down
Don’t let me live a lie
Before my life flies by
I need you slow me down
Just show me I need you to slow me down
The noise of the world
Is getting me caught up
Chasing the clock
And I wish I could stop it
Just need to breathe
Somebody please slow me down

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Cow droppings

do you ever feel like a giant cow dropping? sometimes life can be so overwhelming, things happen or people say things to you or about you and it makes you feel about as loved as a pile of steaming cow dung.

It is weird what a roller coaster life can be. Tonight I went out to a coffee shop and wow, the sunset was so breath taking. I just felt absolutely stunned and compelled to worship... But a few hours later the cynicism and criticism I was experiencing felt like a physical thing... I could literally feel the joy and peace and contentment being sucked out of me. I simply had to remove myself from the situation.

So here I sit... wanting to recall that sunset... wanting to recall the breathless feeling that filled my chest that a thing, a created thing could be so lovely, so powerful that words or pictures would not do it justice.

It turned my thoughts to the Creator. If this night, this sunset, could be so beautiful; what must the Creator look like? The clouds in an indescribable shade of pinkish, orangish, mauve swept up from the horizon. The sun was not visible at all, only the effect of it on the clouds. I thought about the songs of the angels and creatures described in the Bible... They surround the throne of the King and their praise, their strong, majestic voices sweeps up into the sky above the throne like those clouds. I wonder if like northern lights the beauty of their songs, the beauty of the voices colors the sky, rippling and billowing like a high sail...

And if the angels and the creatures who see the King are so full of His songs, so full of His praises... why am I so earth bound? So distracted and manipulated by the mean spiritedness of my fellow man...

I wonder what God in His heaven must look like if His created earth is so beautiful... I can't wait to see Him and find out.

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Friday, October 12, 2007

My NJ trip...

There were a few highlights... and some low lights... I was really bummed that I didn't get to see one of my very dear friends Nikki...

I enjoyed the chance to catch up with my brother and his family and to meet my nephew's girlfriend. Her name is Heather. She seemed really sweet.

The primary reason for my being in NJ was to represent my senior community to pastors and bible teachers at a conference. I didn't have as many opportunities as I would have liked but I really enjoyed a couple of the messages I heard. In particular one guy talked about the need for love and what love looks like... His context was in church leadership, but I considered it in the context of my marriage and my leadership role at my nursing home. Consider the following challenges:

i. Am I selfish toward my wife/fellow worker?
ii. Am I long suffering with my wife/co-workers?
iii. Am I gentle toward my wife and coworkers?
iv. Am I secretly envious of my wife or co-workers?
v. Am I trying to be impressive in front of my spouse or fellow workers?
vi. Am I trying to be superior to my wife or co-workers?
vii. Am I rude to my wife or co-worker?
viii.Do I have a secret agenda with my wife or co-workers?
ix. Am I easily offended by my wife or fellow workers?
x. Do I try and think the best of my wife and co-workers or do I assume the worst of them?
xi. Am I enduring in loyalty toward my wife and co-workers?

I was really challenged.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Going to Jersey

For my birthday this year I got a new arched trellis from Carol and the kids.

It's really pretty. I can't wait for the vine to fill it up.



In other news, I am planning a trip to NJ. I plan to head out there October 6th and return on the 11th. It sure would be nice to see some old Jersey friends. I spoke with a dear friend today who could use a friend right now. I think this visit is really providential.

This week I finally managed to connect with a couple of others for the French Meetup. This coming Tuesday I hope to do it again and really hope we'll have a few more there.

The Couple that I met up know one of Carol's old profs! What a small world.

Friday, September 21, 2007

mapping my walks...

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Yeah!!

So what do you think of childhood conversions?? Tonight, after I prayed with the boys, Andrew asked me, Dad, you know how I'm the only one who isn't a Christian, can you tell me how to do it again??

So I tried as simply as I could, to explain to a really smart five year old that Jesus loves to forgive sins... that that was why He even came to earth was to pay for our sins... I told him that you just have to tell Jesus that you know you're a sinner, that you're sorry for the sin you've done and you want take his payment for you own sin... I reminded him that Jesus didn't have to die cause he never sinned, and I tried to explain Romans 3:23 that Jesus had to die because that's the pay that sin earns - death.

After a while, he asked if he had to do it out loud, so I tried to explain Rom. 10:9 that what really matters is believing it in your heart, but that it's good to say it out loud too. He asked if I would remind him what to say. I told him that the exact words didn't matter too much , but you could say something like, Jesus, I know I'm a sinner and I know you died for my sins and I want you to wash me clean and come into my life... Well, beaming from ear to ear he repeated what I said, so I reminded him that what was most important was that you believed it deep inside and not just say the words, but that if he really meant those words Jesus would definitely come into him and wash him and make him a Christian because He loves to forgive sins...

He said then that means I'm a Christian too, and I said, yeah, and I'm not just your dad anymore, I'm your brother too. So, we keep loving this little boy and praying for him and invite our friends that his life, his heart would truly be Jesus'.

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Better home and garden...

Here are some before and after shots of our efforts to spruce up the house...

Sunday, September 2, 2007

300

Wowza! So I just finally watched 300 - not one for the kiddies, brutal, bloody, graphic violence and a couple of scenes of sensuality but if you can get past those (admittedly significant) drawbacks, it is a powerful film that inspires great admiration in these Greeks who were absolutely committed, absolutely loyal and true warriors.

There are some great lines but the slow mo fight scenes are obviously what the movie is all about. The guys who play the Spartan warriors are in amazing physical condition... I found the following link so that any of us guys can get a Spartan warrior physique. I'll get right on that .... tomorrow :-)

http://link.brightcove.com/services/link/bcpid770191312/bctid1155327508

Monday, August 27, 2007

The beach at Carnac was so beautiful... I wanted to show you this satellite image from Google. I put up some more pictures at my picassa site. CLICK ON WAY MORE PICTURES above to go see pictures.
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Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Angers...



Okay, so another entry about our time in France... We spent several days in Paris, a week "down south" near Spain in the area of Carcassonne, and a day in Carnac near the Atlantic coast in Brittany - but I have to say, my favorite place in France was Angers. The cathedrals in town are almost as lovely as any we saw elsewhere from the same era. The gothic cathedrals of Orlean and Chartres were much more breath taking because of the construction methods used, but in Angers we visited two wonderful cathedrals. Saint Maurice was my favorite. Here in this gorgeous place I felt so much emotion. On the one hand I felt personally so close to God. The sense of awe and grandeur about the place, combined with the devotion of other Christ followers was evident. There was the the prayer labyrinth in the center of the floor where pilgrims would "walk" on their knees around a serious of concentric circles designed to clear the mind and focus it on spiritual things. There was the majestic HAND CARVED pulpit that was easily 12 feet high and probably 25 feet wide. (see the picture above) Up near the "altar" was the relic of Saint Maurice, a skull of a 20 year old boy martyred for his faith in the 1st century AD!! The conflict of emotion was that for all the beauty and majesty, so many here are still endeavoring to gain their place in heaven... I was compelled to sit a while and worship and pray for the people of France.

Throughout our time we visited the castles of Chenonceau, Chambord, Breze, Versaille to name a few but of for my money, the castle in Angers ranks near the top. It is impressive for its construction but also because of its extensive use of slate, setting it apart from almost every other chateau or castle we saw.

I also enjoyed the surrounding areas, Trelaze, and St. Barthelemy to name a couple. In Angers is where we had the opportunity to get to know people a bit too; Ally's parents and the Mumfords. It would certianly be there

Sunday, August 19, 2007

Carnac – Our last day trip

Of course it was a later start than we hoped, but we headed off on our last day trip. Our destination this time was Carnac. This area is known for it's stone megaliths and mysterious past. The relationship to the Celts is more evident here than other parts of France.

 
 

We stopped for lunch at a charming Creperie, called La Potion Magique, after the famed Asterix and Obelix series. After lunch we decided to go beach combing since the weather was quite changeable and windy and we thought it might be too cool if we waited till late in the day. The beach here was much more crowded than Gruissan. It reminded me of driving down Ocean Ave. in NJ during the height of the summer crush. Traffic crawled along, shops selling tacky plastic beach toys, boogie boards and umbrellas lined the beach front.

 
 

Of course there were definite differences. The architecture is so different here. Between the slate and red tile roofs there are occasional homes built of sand stone. None of the homes are sided in aluminum or vinyl. Basically stucco or plaster are the chief materials used for siding.

 
 

Another difference is that access to the beach was free! That was a nice surprise. We stopped in a wee antique store but most of the items were huge and didn't lend themselves to packing. Once at the beach we noticed some other differences. No changing rooms. Carol and I made a towel "tent" for the children to change in. They were a bit shy but the call of the waves helped them overcome their shyness. There were many more shells here than in the south. About 100 feet out into the ocean there was a platform erected with two different diving boards. One was about six feet from the water, the other was about twelve feet from the water. Alex and I swam out to the platform and did our impression of cliff divers. :-)

 
 

Before we knew it, it was six o'clock. We headed out to take our survey of the 6000 year old alignments of granite stone. Some of the stones are only two feet tall or so, but some are well over 15 feet tall and two people could not hold hands around the stones. The tourist center provided a detailed map but we were again frustrated by the lack of road signs posted and many of the sites were unmarked and we struggled to find them. Eventually we came upon a lovely site with three "dolmen" or stone tables. One of these was worn enough below that we could comfortably sit out of the elements and enjoy a picnic.

 
 

We made good time on the way home but as it was our last night we took a night time drive around Angers and took some night pictures of the castle, cathedral and fountain downtown. After carrying the kids in we began the process of packing and sorting. Around 3:30 we finally fell into bed. When I woke up at 7:30 I knew I hadn't slept long enough but the alarm would soon sound so I lay there until 8 then dragged myself out of bed.

 
 

Back in the States

Sadly enough we are home. I cannot begin to tell you how inadequate these few blog entries are to express the variety of experiences and emotions I have experienced over the past four weeks. I will try to add a few additional posts here to serve the purpose of recording the trip memories so I hope you enjoy them.

Also, I am adding a link to Bim's blog on MSN... She is a much better writer than I am so you'll probably enjoy reading that too.

Check back soon.

Monday, August 6, 2007

Here are some pictures from the last few days here in France.

Me and Andrew and me and Alex roasting at the slate museum near our "home" in Angers... the museum is actually in Trelaze.


That's me and Liz in front of an ancient wall in Angers.






















Above, Ian gazes at the magnificent Chambord castle where we had a picnic. Lizzie and Ian grin and clutch the fence at the tippy top of the Eiffel Tower. What a tremendous view!

This past week we went back to Paris. It's a three hour drive but we took two days to accomplish it. We toured several castles. Versaille is breath-taking but eventually the opulence became repulsive, as did the evident and arrogant self-aggrandizement of the last king who lived there, France's Louis XIV, Marie Antoinette's hubby. My favorite castle was probably Chenonceau. You can click on the picture below to go to their website. It is so beautiful and the gardens are fantastic.


I have found going to the cathedrals to be a very moving experience. On the one hand it is sad to see how the people of France have been exploited in the name of a God whose Son came to earth and died with His most valuable asset being a woven tunic. On the other hand the splendor of the cathedrals does inspire awe and a sense of the majesty of God that our modern churches lack.

We visited Chartres, the gorgeous cathedral in Orleans, and a couple here in Angers. One of the cathedrals here in Angers has a relic that dates back to the 1st century, the skull of an unknown martyr, quite stirring.

In Paris we went up the Eiffel Tower with Ally which was fun. We also took in the Louvre in hyper speed. It broke my heart to have to speed past so many lovely paintings and sculptures. Ian really wanted to see the Mona Lisa which we got to do. On the way out of town on Friday we drove up the Champs-Elysees and around the Arc d'triomphe where 12 roads come to a big circle with no lane markings or anything! How fun. I also enjoyed speeding along the autoroute

Some highlights for the kids included getting their portraits done in Montmartre, and watching some break-dancers at the Trocadero.

It's been great to see Ally and I leave for now with this picture of Andrew hanging out the window of the car. I think the kids are enjoying themselves although a couple are really beginning to feel home sick. Continue to pray for us friends. Thanks.

Friday, July 27, 2007

Installment One

Wednesday

Well, it’s time for the first installment of my travelblog. We start in the airport at O’Hare where Carol’s parents kindly dropped us off. Things went remarkably smoothly considering we were loading six large suitcases and six carry on pieces with four sleepy children and two slightly stressed parents. The one near disaster happened just as we boarded the plane. We were so happy that we didn’t have to wait a long time at the gate. We were able to board right as we arrived at the gate, in fact, we just about the last ones to board. However, Elisabeth suddenly realized that her Build-a-Bear had been forgotten in the ladies room near the beginning of the terminal. Carol had to race back to the bathroom to get it while the kids fretted that the plane would leave without her.


My favorite experience on the plane was the built in TV’s on the headrest of each chair. There wasn’t really anything worth watching and I didn’t even watch one whole movie during the entire 8 hour flight but on one “channel” there rotated the distance to travel, our elevation, the outside temperature, our location on a map and the local time.


When we finally arrived in London, a jolly Irish agent got us quickly through customs and on our way. Unfortunately, by this time is was quite late and the trains in the tube would quit running before we could get all the way to Docklands on the far side of the city. We had to squeeze into a cab. The Indian driver assured us we’d all fit into his “seven passenger” van. This was a generous description of the vehicle. It was a seven passenger but the van part…. Well, the back was only about 10 inches deep and we could hardly fit our carry on’s in there, let alone our suitcases. Nevertheless, we squeezed in sitting on laps, with bags piled on top of us and me making Andrew duck every time a police car went by as he wasn’t supposed to be in front on my lap! The driver was super nice. He had lived in Malawi and he told a lot about the different sights we passed.


Next morning we got up and decided to take a train into London. We had a real hike but it was worth it. A French girl approached us for directions but I couldn’t understand her English. I called Carol over to help her and she thought Carol was French! That was a confidence booster for Carol. We finally made it downtown to the Tower of London and it began to rain! Oh well, of course we had forgotten our umbrella so we just pressed on. It wasn’t too cold and thankfully it stopped quite quickly. After a few photo ops at the Tower, we hopped on a bus to the Tate, London’s modern art museum. We had hoped to see the Salvador Dali exhibit but it was pretty expensive. There were some fun interactive games and we toured the free part of the museum which ranged from the sublime, (one of four copies of Rodin’s, the Kiss) to the truly bizarre! After the Tate we were hungry so we stopped into a pizzeria. They were kind of odd European pizzas, very little cheese but fire baked and quite tasty. The waitress was a very nice Polish girl.

After lunch we walked to the Globe Theatre, the reproduction of the theatre where Shakespeare’s plays were originally performed. We had hoped to see a play but they were all sold out. After wandering around in their shop and trying to resist buying lots of stuff, we went out and crossed the Millennium Bridge, otherwise known as the “wobbly bridge”. We were on our way to St. Paul’s cathedral but had a neat surprise waiting. As we came off the bridge, we ran into Julien Beever, the famous street artist doing a live production! What a treat. We had enjoyed his stuff online but it was really cool to see it live. After a few photos of St. Paul’s we took a super crowded double decker to Trafalgar square. There we enjoyed some shots of the National Gallery and the huge lions near guarding the square. It was a long day so we picked up some groceries and headed back to the hotel.

Thursday

Wow, I better make these shorter or no one is ever going to read all this! Thursday morning we ate the rest of what we bought the night before at the grocery store. Then we headed off to Buckingham Palace. We had really hoped to be there in time for the changing of the guard but we were a little late. We were in for a treat as the Jamaican marching band was there and we were privileged to see them march by. As the crowd dispersed we decided to wander over to the horse guard to see if we could get a photo with one of the guards. A little ways along we realized Alex had forgotten his black messenger bag! He and I raced back. Would it be stolen or the center of a bomb squad lock down?? We arrived to find it gone. My heart sank. It was a brand new bag and had four library books in it from home. We began to walk back when Alex saw a policeman and asked if I would ask him about it. With great doubts I approached the officer! Miraculously, he was the one who found the bag. He said that normal procedure called for closing off the area and calling the bomb squad but he had decided to peek inside first. Finding it innocent, he had put it in his van. Were we ever thankful!!

With the bag safely restored we wandered through the park, stopping to enjoy a lovely play area with children from every tongue and tribe and people and nation playing together. It was lovely; a little precursor of heaven. We ended our day out at the wonderful British Museum; sSuch a marvelous collection of artifacts from Nineveh, Babylon, Egypt, Rome and Greece.

Friday

This was our day to travel to Paris. We left our hotel at two a.m. and I’ll spare all the stories which were many and share just two food stories. The first story occurs in the Café St Rene. This charming café was as picturesque as anything you could imagine. We were all pretty hungry and I decided I was going to be brave and try something I had never tried before. I order something called Andouillette. It was a sausage, complete with delicious potatoes on the side. The sausage was pork intestine stuffed with chopped pork stomach lining. I do not recommend this dish. With lots of bread and potatoes I was able to choke down about two thirds but I just couldn’t finish. Our second dining experience in Paris was at the apartment of Ally, our former exchange student. She and her boyfriend kindly fixed supper for us. I was sleeping when they started and when I awoke the house was full of the smell of a delicious meal cooking. I was shocked to enter the kitchen and find they had not started the roast. Everything else was nearly done! However, I soon discovered that this was intentional. In France they like their beef barely warmed through. I actually enjoyed it but the kids struggled a bit.

Well, that’s enough for now. I will keep trying to catch up, but for now that’s sufficient.

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Happy in Angers

That isn't the emotion Angers.... it's a town in the Loire Valley. I am here with my family and so delighted. What a lovely country. The many warnings I received about the French have been blessedly unneeded, folks have been friendly, kind, and helpful. Rather than post pictures here, I will insert a link to my picassa site later. I just wanted to get started here. I need to record some funny, yucky, scary, lovely, interesting stories here.... Right now it is late... Isn't it always when I get around to my blog??? But I have so much to say. I need to get my thoughts in order and then I'll post some stuff. Stop back soon.

Monday, July 16, 2007

Day One

We drove to O'Hare airport today and picked up the French family who will be staying in out home. It is hard to believe that after weeks of planning and preparation, the trip is finally upon us. I have a serious mixture of fear and excited anticipation. How will I manage with no English for a month? Will the kids enjoy this? Will we all be safe? Will I get bored not working?

We have consolidated somewhat but I think we still have too much stuff. The Le Boullicaut's had so much less than us. Right now we have four big suitcases, two smaller ones, Carol's guitar and six carry on bags plus Carol's purse and the camera bag.

I heard from both Mac and Constance's baby sitters that they are doing well. Bisous seems to sense that somethings up, but I think she'll have fun staying with nana and grandpa. Well, stay tuned, there's bound to be more exciting updates to come.

Tuesday, July 3, 2007

quick update...

I will post some more pictures soon... just a quick update.

We had a lovely time at Holland State Park this past Sunday with the college kids... I'd love to get to know those guys better... hmmmm, how do I do that?? Is it possible? I'm an old dude who enjoys the young folks, but I am an old dude... are they going to open up to me?

I loved seeing the K plus and first graders on Sunday... I am looking forward to AWANA... That's weird... I am not usually into little kids.... who am I? Who are you making me God?

I had great conversations with two dear friends this week... I so want God to reveal Himself in me and through me... I am always afraid that people will look at me if they see something good... I know it's all Him... there is nothing good in me.

It has been so great to spend time with the family... Camped out the other night with the boys, did the bonfire thing, went swimming, putzed in the garden with Carol... I am so blessed, and so undeserving. God is soooooo good.

Feel free to comment if you think God is awesome! :-)

Saturday, June 16, 2007

June Fun

This is such a fun time in our kids lives. Now that school is out, Elisabeth has found the joys of friends. She doesn't like hanging around the house with the boys. She has been going almost every day to friends' houses. She and Ian both had friends over for sleep overs last night. Alex had a sleep over the night before. Alex is getting ready to go Chicago for a week to be with his two cousins at Grandma and Grandpa's house.

Tomorrow I sing in the praise team... I sure enjoy that. The opportunity to serve, to lead God's people in worship, the camaraderie of being a part of the team, all of it! I hope I'm not too tired. I worked like a dog yesterday and today. Yesterday I power washed the deck and redid the garden fence and enlarged the lawn area. Today after cleaning up the house and doing some shopping, I took the doors of the barn and painted the hinges black and the edge pieces white.

The Heart - A Poem

The heart sings joy
It quakes with fright
It trembles with anticipation

It's racked by sobs
It's drowned in tears
It soars with accomplishment
It revels in victory

Yet when it aches...
The pain is beyond knowing,
When doubt, fear or shame touch it
Abandon hope and chew pain's bitter pill.

Sunday, June 10, 2007

My house, is a very, very, very nice house...




I have been so enjoying the yard this year. It is really coming together. Here are some pictures of the progress so far.

The top picture is the new fire pit Carol put together. Didn't she do a nice job? The other night we had our maiden bonfire. We did s'mores and burgers. Not in that order, but that was the order of preference. :-)

The other two pictures are of the backyard. Finally the yard is becoming what we had envisioned for the past couple of years.

New pictures of my crew... I loves 'em!




Friday, June 8, 2007

Worse than Icarus

I want to fly,

I flap and flap and flap and flap

I lose feathers

What a lot of noise.

People laugh,

I flap and flap and flap and flap

They look away

Embarrassed at my failure.

I want to cry

I flap and flap and flap and flap

My eyes burn

As tears streak my face

People leave

I flap and flap and flap then flop

I'm too tired

Let me go to sleep

Banjo ballet

Heidi ho, heidi hey

Piroette, plie

Turnin' and a bowin'

At the banjo ballet

Dosado, fiddle bow

Promenade, twinkle toe

Callin' and a cheerin'

At the banjo ballet

Whistle, slide, shuffle scoot

Call me a country snoot

Leapin' and a hollarin'

At the banjo ballet

Copyright, Brian Wilson

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Stellar Kart vs. Shrek the Third

Well, last night it was decision time... Bim and I had talked about each doing our own thing, I'd take Alex to a Stellar Kart concert, she would take the others to a movie.... I began to sense however, that Alex was more interested in a movie than in the concert. Turns out I was right. Turns out we went to Shrek the Third. It was pretty funny... I would recommend it, although as usual, the first is still the best.

Dear reader, have you any movie recommendations? New releases, old classic, live action, or animated, whatever, just let me know your thoughts.

That's all for tonight, I'm falling asleep.

Wednesday, May 9, 2007

News and pictures...


So we are taking down some more trees from our yard...

That big one in the front yard actually began to split and separate as the guys were cutting it down. My friends, Joe F and Joey V are doing the work. I'm a little annoyed however. These pictures were taken on Saturday and they still haven't come back to get all the brush off my lawn. Pretty soon there won't be any lawn under there!!!

The boys loved having the tractor over. I have to tell an Andrew story. He comes out to me while I'm working in the side yard... "dad, where's mom?" "she went out with Liz"...."dad, where's Alex?" "He's over at Zach's."... "dad, where's Ian?"... "He's in the front sweetie, playing on the tractor." As he begins to wander over to Ian, "thanks for the information dad."

How does a five year old get so precocious?

Thursday, May 3, 2007

It's been too long...

I was rereading some correspondence from a dear friend and wanted to share his wisdom. These thoughts are not my own, but were extremely helpful to me...

I remember an old preacher saying, "The Lord is the only one who can humble us without humiliating us." (His name was T. E. Wilson). I think he got it right.


The purpose of humiliating someone is to cause them personal grief, and, perhaps for the one who does the humiliating, to feel superior. But the purpose of God's humbling is to get us going in the right direction and to accomplish His purposes in and through us.

The Scripture is clear. Whatever God does in our lives, He does it for our good (not merely for His glory). I profited from reading the first part of Heb. 12 again.

* our fathers chastened us and we respected them (even though they often did it for their benefit, not ours); if so, we ought also to respect our heavenly Father, rather than despising His chastening or fainting under it BECAUSE He always does it for OUR profit.

I also appreciated WHAT that profit is. In Romans 8:28-29, the good to which "all things" contribute is our conformity to Christ. But here is is "that we might be partakers of His holiness." In other words, that we might share His abhorrence of sin and its damages.

Hmmm.

It's been too long...

I was rereading some correspondence from a dear friend and wanted to share his wisdom. These thoughts are not my own, but were extremely helpful to me...

I remember an old preacher saying, "The Lord is the only one who can humble us without humiliating us." (His name was T. E. Wilson). I think he got it right.


The purpose of humiliating someone is to cause them personal grief, and, perhaps for the one who does the humiliating, to feel superior. But the purpose of God's humbling is to get us going in the right direction and to accomplish His purposes in and through us.

The Scripture is clear. Whatever God does in our lives, He does it for our good (not merely for His glory). I profited from reading the first part of Heb. 12 again.

* our fathers chastened us and we respected them (even though they often did it for their benefit, not ours); if so, we ought also to respect our heavenly Father, rather than despising His chastening or fainting under it BECAUSE He always does it for OUR profit.

I also appreciated WHAT that profit is. In Romans 8:28-29, the good to which "all things" contribute is our conformity to Christ. But here is is "that we might be partakers of His holiness." In other words, that we might share His abhorrence of sin and its damages.

Hmmm.

Sunday, April 22, 2007

Mac the Cat


We just got a kitten. It is the cutest thing. Ian has been asking for a pet of his own for a while. We were thinking probably like a gerbil or a hamster or something, but no, a kitten. I think this might be the most loved kitty of all time. We'll see if the enthusiasm wears off after a bit but so far... wow. Mac is very cuddly and lovable, not things I usually think of in a cat. Usually Carol's allergies would have prohibited it, but she so wanted to please the kids that she played with Mac in the store a while to see if he would bother her as some cats do while other cats do not. So far, it seems as though we are safe!

Thursday, April 12, 2007

April is birthday month...

This past weekend we celebrated Elisabeth's birthday. We took a bunch of pictures like this one and I've uploaded them to our Flickr site. This coming weekend, Libby is getting baptised. Hopefully we'll get some pictures of that exciting time up next week.

Alex's party is tomorrow. I can't believe my baby is going to be 12!! He is such a nice kid. He teases too much, but I need to record some of his thoughts here. He is so sweet and insightful. As we enter the teen years I do worry about him but we'll just have to shower him in prayer and trust the Lord. I don't mean to make it sound like that's ALL we can do, like it's a bad thing, I mean, it's the best we can do...

My mom's birthday is Sunday, tax day, and I have no idea what to get her. Sometimes I wish we lived closer but I am content here. I really feel like this is where the Lord put us.

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Alex playing Phantom of the Opera



You can see this and other Wilson videos at www.YouTube.com/tumnus827


I love this picture... lying on the beach, listening to the waves... and the sound of my angel reading French poetry...

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Spring Break is Here

Spring Break begins today. We are so spacey. We forgot to get a sitter confirmed. Malanee is willing to do it but Alex and Elisabeth have found friends to go be with. Maybe Tami will watch the boys. We will have to call in the morning. It's too late now!

I cleaned up the old computer and got the iMac kind of working. Maybe we'll switch the newer Emachine and Mac... Most all we use the desktop for is Alex playing Runescape... and for printing from our jump drives from time to time, or else Andrew playing games now that he's is getting into that.

I am hoping that grandma and grandpa will take the kids to Chicago for a few days over Spring Break, just for something fun for them. I wonder what will happen this summer about France. Carol and I had hoped to go, but we haven't saved the way we should. And with everything else going on.... well, this isn't the place to get into that but... I don't know if it'll happen.

Sunday, March 25, 2007

Girl Scout Camp

Elisabeth and her new friend Nadia at horse camp. Carol and she went away for the weekend and had a simply lovely time.

They learned to tack and groom the horses, took riding lessons, did archery together, took hikes and sang around the campfire as Carol played her guitar.

212 degrees...

This morning Alex and I enjoyed a wonderful message. Dan spoke on Moses from Ex. 2:11 - 17. The idea is that when water undergoes the phase change from water to steam it's power is unleashed. At 211, it's just hot water, at 212 it can power a locomotive or catapult a jet off a carrier at 165 miles an hour in two seconds. He gave us five steps to acheive our phase change taken from Moses' life - finding your purpose in life, finding your divine discontent, finding your capacity for sin, finding God's discontent, hearing God's calling... I think you can listen online if you want to hear the message. Check out our church website www.chapel-pointe.org

Carol and Elisabeth came home from horse camp at Manitou-lin, both full of stories and excitement but Carol had to turn right back around and head out to Chiaroscuro. (that site opens best in IE 5 or better. When I open it in Mozilla, my browser of choice, it is not properly configured.) She had to be on the panel to discuss the film Fear and Trembling.

Trickery and Skullduggery

Today I told my boys we would do something fun seeing as mom and Lizzy we away at girl scout horse camp. I told them we'd do something I like, then something fun for them. So, for my fun, I took them on a hike. What a hoot. All three grumbled and moaned after I told them and they grumbled and moaned as we got out of the van. Then we went a hundred yards down the Kent Trails path... and found it flooded. Well, that seemed ok with them. I said I wanted to take a couple of pictures, and next thing I know, they're getting into it :-D... tossing sticks and stones into the water, counting bird calls, finding leaves. Alex even spotted a beaver!! We saw a Canadian duck couple. Then we dug around in rotting tree trunks hunting bugs and beetles, ants and spiders. Eventually, I was ready to leave and the boys didn't want to go. What a wonderful way to spend an afternoon.